Definitely take her browsing for a ring.  Especially since she is so picky, you will want to have an idea of what really pleases her.

After you browse and get some ideas of what her choice might be, you'll then need to go back to the place you're going to make the purchase and set up financing if necessary.  Don't let her witness you haggling and dealing over the cost or finance charges.

I went shopping with my fiance for my engagement ring. He knows how indecisive I am about everything and wanted to make sure he got something I absolutely loved. Remember she will have the ring forever. When buying something as expensive as an engagement you are better safe than sorry. A lot of my girlfriends have actually brought their rings back to have changes made as horrible as that sounds.

I went shopping with my fiance for my engagement ring. He knows how indecisive I am about everyting and wanted to make sure he got something I absolutely loved. Remember she will have the ring forever. When buying something as expensive as an engagement you are better safe than sorry. A lot of my girlfriends have actually brought their rings back to have changes made as horrible as that sounds.

I went with my boyfriend to pick out my ring because he isn't into rings, isn't into shopping, etc. all the factors that lead to dead ends when it comes to rings. just remember to be sensitive about it, because most women will want to take their time... remember she'll have it forever!!!

and definitely keep her out of the financing part... i had to help with that, and it was a little awkward and uncomfortable working with the jeweler, etc. however, it was a very stark reminder of how much we loves me.

lastly, and more importantly, congratulations on taking the next step! and always keeping her in mind :)

My Husband had not one clue as to what I would want, and I didnt really make it easy either I was always changing my mind... SO, he gave me a solitaire that we then had set in a ring later. That we picked out together...

Or you could get her BF to probe her for questions, or a sister or mom, your sister or mom, some one that shes close to, and then go with them to pick the ring...

Keep us posted!

My fiance did the solitaire thing too so I could choose my own ring style. Just figure out what shape of ring she likes, get her that and then she can choose the setting.

Definitely you should take her so that you'll know what kind of ring she love.

Marriage is not about rings or material things. It is about love, working together, becoming one in mind and complimenting each other in achieving goals.If the rings are to be a gift to you then gracefully accept them.

My fiance did the solitaire thing too so I could choose my own ring style. Just figure out what shape of ring she likes, get her that and then she can choose the setting.

Propose to her in the jewelry store, and then tell her to pick one. =) 

I don't think it is horrible to make changes at all. My husband and I went shopping together, I picked out the ring. After we were married we had the diamond put in a new setting. The stone is the most important so the setting has to match her style and wallet. You would be safer taking her with you. casino en ligne

It would be better if you go with her.

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I think there is a lot of good advice in this thread.  In particular, a couple of points worth considering:

1. Custom or semi custom design is often a rewarding and romantic experience.  The receiver has the opportunity to really put her heart and personal style into the ring, and has the knowledge that she will never see another ring quite like it.

2. Purchasing an engagement ring is a big financial commitment, which has some decidedly unromantic aspects to it.

The best way to reconcile these two points is to buy the diamond first, have it set in a presentation solitaire, and pop the question.  All this is done as a surprise for your significant other.  This allows you to maintain control and privacy with regard to the purchase of the center diamond (which makes up the largest part of the engagement ring's purchase price in most cases), and keep the proposal a surprise while still having something to slip on her finger.

Later, as a couple, you can work through the custom design process; giving the diamond you selected a permanent home.  This process can be fun for both parties and less stressful since the diamond purchase is already taken care of.  Read more about how to buy a diamond, including a step by step guide on how to choose the best diamond for you, and more details on what makes this the best way to buy an engagement ring.

One side note about the comment above regarding "gouging":  While the jewelry industry is not famous for honesty, transparency, and integrity, some companies are.  The company I work for, Lumera Diamonds, offers the full retail price on any diamond you trade in for another.  They can only do this because the first price you paid is a fair one.  There are other companies as well.  Just ask to have the companies return, trade in, and quality guarantees in writing before you bother shopping. 

Alan Ricks,
Diamond Consultant
Lumera Diamonds: GIA Certified Loose Diamonds